The Joys of Solo Dining

by Gray Cargill on July 16, 2014

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When people first start traveling solo, one of the things they are most nervous about is dining in public alone. There seem to be a few fears at play here:

1.) The fear that others will see us eating alone and judge us to be lonely, friendless pariahs.

2.) The fear that we’ll receive poor service because of being alone.

3.) The fear of not knowing what to do without a dining companion to talk to.

Fear #1 is groundless: Almost nobody will notice that you’re alone, because most people are too self-centered to notice anyone outside their own circle. The only people who might notice that you’re alone are other solos–and they’re certainly not going to judge you poorly for doing what they’re doing. As long as you are content with your solitude, that will radiate from you and nobody will think twice about you dining alone. …Keep Reading!

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Where it’s The Fourth of July Every Week

July 2, 2014
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Since we’re all gearing up for the Fourth of July (Independence Day) here in the U.S.–a holiday celebrated in big cities and small towns alike with a night of fireworks following a day of parades and cookouts–I thought now might be a good week to share my experience of watching the Friday night fireworks in [...]

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Photo Post: Woman and Nature

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For some reason, I keep coming back to this picture I took on Oahu. It was a clear, sunny day, and I was snapping dozens of photos at La’ie Point, including the rock formation with the hole punched through it by a tsunami, people fishing, the curve of the land, the waves crashing against the [...]

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Finding Hawaii in Waikiki

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A few months ago, I announced I was going to Hawaii, staying in Waikiki. Somebody who follows my blog responded “But Waikiki isn’t really Hawaii.” I see where he’s coming from; Waikiki is easily the most touristy place in the Hawaiian islands. You could easily vacation there at a luxury resort on the beach and [...]

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The Sunset Ritual

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There’s a ritual that happens every evening in Waikiki. When the sun begins to set, everything seems to slow down. People move outside. They gravitate to the beach, or a deck with a view. They pad through the shifting sand to the water’s edge or the end of a pier, watching and waiting for the [...]

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A Walk Along the Ala Wai Canal

May 21, 2014
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I’ve mentioned before in this blog that I’m a big fan of walking along rivers and canals in cities. Aside from the fact that it provides more attractive scenery for a long walk than navigating city streets surrounded by nothing but steel and stone buildings, there’s something about walking along rivers and canals that makes [...]

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The Gratitude Project

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The human mind can be the magic carpet that flies us to exotic lands. It can be the MacGyver that helps us find creative ways to solve our problems. It can change our world. But it can also sabotage us quicker than you can say “boo.” If you still haven’t made your travel dreams come [...]

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Intro to Surf Culture: The Honolulu Surfing Museum

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If you are a cultural tourist like me, you probably scour the web for lists of museums in whatever city you’re next planning to visit. Pretty much every city has its “must sees”–places like the Louvre in Paris, the Prado in Madrid or the British Museum in London. And no matter how crowded they are, [...]

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Dining Around Honolulu, Part II

April 30, 2014
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I’m not much of a foodie, but I really love the dining options in Honolulu. On my recent January trip, I ate at some of my old favorites (like Tiki’s Grill and Bar) and tried a number of new places (like the Rainbow Drive-In, which I’ve already written about). I tried malasadas and deep-fried banana [...]

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